And then she took her own. They were all great experiences, and Mark learned a ton from each. I am sane, educated, and look at all sides of situations. As for those who have urged me to kill myself, accused me of being responsible for the tragic deaths of Meredith and Jennair, they have a responsibility before just spewing their vitriolic hatred after watching a 40 minute show about a 28 year relationship they know little or nothing about to at least reflect on what kind of moral high ground they stake claim to. Between 5 and 6 p.m., Chapman arrived, parked her Audi in the driveway, got out of the car carrying a bag, and entered her home through a back door, according to a neighbor. The posts are moot now, colored by Gerardot's decision to solve her marital woes by picking up a handgun. I feel terrible for both you and your wife. And I am a “tough customer” to please because I felt that I had gone through a lot due to the circumstances of my divorce. Anyway you slice it, this was a terrible tragedy for all parties involved. })(); Queens woman beaten to death by boyfriend accusing her of cheating, Playboy model on Southwest Airlines forced to cover up over ‘lewd’ outfit, 53 year old man jumps to his death from Manhattan skyscraper, Indiana college student w/ COVID19 found dead in dorm while quarantining, Indiana mom, 40, shot by 2 year old son, 5 year old brother calls for help, Cheating husband blames self after wife shoots mistress then self dead, A husband has blamed himself after his wife shot and killed his, The woman’s husband had begun seeing the much younger woman after hiring him to work at the, There, after cleaning up the glass she’d shattered while entering the front door, Jennair lay in wait to shoot and murder Meredith as she walked in the door. The words of encouragement and understanding for what I am trying to accomplish are inspirational. The woman’s husband had begun seeing the much younger woman after hiring him to work at the University of Delaware and with whom he was having an affair. "I just transferred to Delaware in December for my Husband's new job, and he's telling me he wants a divorce," Gerardot wrote. And then she took her own. This post was longer, and offered a deeper portrait of a woman who seemed desperate to save a marriage that was threatening to tumble off a cliff. After years of being isolated and controlled by a woman I loved but who put me down endlessly, I fell in love with someone and started a relationship while I was still married. You don’t even like me. In fact, they’ve emboldened me and bolstered my resolve to make my message louder and more clear. But then he caught the entrepreneur bug and co-founded a creative agency. But I do believe very strongly that she “could have” reached a similar point in her life of peace, contentment, and joy with or without a life partner. Police say Jennair Gerardot (left) shot and killed Meredith Chapman (right) before committing suicide. She got to the area Monday afternoon. Mark Gerardot joined the staff at the University of Delaware as creative director earlier this year and briefly worked under Meredith’s supervision. When she didn't … After college, he moved to Indianapolis where he worked for a magazine publisher, a real estate developer, a food packaging manufacturer, advertising agency and a PR firm. You don’t want me anymore. To somehow normalize or justify the weeks of secret planning and premeditation that went into her determination to kill is to imply that she was evil or a bad person. View Mark Gerardot’s profile on LinkedIn, the world's largest professional community. >>READ MORE: Radnor murder-suicide sparked by love triangle, police say. Previously city included New Haven IN. Investigators believe he was in the area under the assumption that he and Chapman were going to meet for dinner. She was lying in wait, and then she shot herself. When any of us has an urge to condemn another, we also have a responsibility to educate ourselves beyond what we see produced for TV. Anyone who thinks that Jennair’s murder and suicide were understandable responses to having been wronged should be put on a watch list. Nor did I, despite what some uninformed commenters suggest, do it for money. Mark, It took me many tries before I could sit down and write you. Mark earlier had confessed the affair to his wife, saying the two had begun counseling in what Mark believed was a step toward an amicable divorce as he continued his clandestine involvement with Chapman. But after 10 amazingly successful years, it was time for a new challenge and a change of geography. Mark Gerardot, who recently left his position at the University of Delaware, has not been available for comment. According to Radnor Township Police Superintendent William Colarulo, Chapman had been involved in an affair with Gerardot's husband, Mark. This was a calculated attack,’ Radnor Township Police Superintendent William Colarulo said at a news conference after the murder. Police who recovered a series of text messages and emails written by the man’s wife said they pointed to revenge as Jennair’s motive. Shit throwers. I’m not asking for a pass for my transgressions from anyone, just open ears and hearts for what I am sharing and for trying to do something positive to help others, so that I can use this tragedy to raise awareness about mental illness, suicide, and the warning signs of violence. Sometimes that means writing a creative brief that crystalizes a “touchy-feely” notion into an actionable creative strategy. But as I have read your blogs, and contributed, I want to say that I see much truth in your blogs. Police discovered that Gerardot had not traveled by train, as they originally reported, when the Delaware County Medical Examiner's Office turned over a set of keys found on Gerardot's body. ‘You had a man who’s married who’s having an affair with this other woman. So incensed had Jennair become, the program reveals the ‘jealous’ wife sewing listening devices into Mark’s clothes to secretly record his conversations when they were apart. A bag containing clothes and a wig was found at the scene. But how could they know what I’ve been through? But facts are facts. From attending AA (both securlarly and non-securlarly), I learned how to dig deep into my spirituality. But pictures never tell the full story. One of those recordings captured Jennair’s rising insecurities. After college, he moved to Indianapolis where he worked for a magazine publisher, a real estate developer, a food packaging manufacturer, advertising agency and a PR firm. Nor did I, despite what some uninformed commenters suggest, do it for money. she asked. As Chapman and Mark Gerardot’s relationship continued, Jennair Gerardot began to see divorce coach Sheila Brennan, who told abcnews her client having a lot of resentment and anger about ‘being tossed away’ and ‘being traded in’ for a younger woman. But in reality, Jennair did have a choice. A husband has blamed himself after his wife shot and killed his mistress before shooting herself dead after ‘breaking her heart.’. Irreparably damaged. You see, it is easier to blame than to look at oneself. Sixteen months later, when I felt I could no longer hide from the truth, I shared mine. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borderline_personality_disorder#Disability. When she didn't show, police suspect, Gerardot went to the house to check on her. Wishing you nothing but joy and strength as you rebuild your life. The superintendent said Jennair had been secretly plotting revenge. (deployads = window.deployads || []).push({}); (function() { She could have simply walked away like so many others faced with similar circumstances and the burden of a broken heart. “What I do best is create clarity and rally people behind ideas.”. But because she was a woman, it never once entered my mind—or the minds of her psychiatrist, our divorce coach, our marriage counselor or anyone else—that she was potentially violent. Point is, it’s not so much the medium as it is the idea that turns heads and wins hearts and minds. Mark Gerardot Wiki The husband of a wife who shot and killed his mistress and then turned the gun on herself says he regrets how he handled the affair. Mark, I followed the story when it happened and I just watched the 20/20 interview. Chapman had only recently moved into the Radnor neighborhood. If they think they have dissuaded me, they have not. But I don’t want to forget. On April 23, 2018, according to police, Jennair donned a wig and rode the train from the couple’s home in Delaware to Pennsylvania, where she broke into the Philadelphia Main Line residence where Meredith, who was estranged from her own husband, lived alone. The time frame between the two shots was unclear Wednesday, but Radnor Police Lt. Christopher Flanagan said it would be a "reasonable conclusion" that Gerardot did not arrive at Chapman's home with the intent to kill herself. Required fields are marked *. But am I glad that he did? Your email address will not be published. And where do I go from here? Through a spokesman, Meredith Chapman's family released a statement late Wednesday afternoon, calling her "a wonderful daughter, sister, and devoted friend. On September 6, 2019, ABC’s 20/20 aired the story of my extramarital relationship, my wife’s stalking of us, and ultimately her murder of my girlfriend followed by her suicide. var znscr = document.getElementsByTagName('script')[0]; "She was a vibrant, vital and caring woman of incredible talent, and we ask for the opportunity to mourn her in private. In an upcoming episode on ABC’s 20/20 it’s revealed Mark Gerardot’s wife, Jennair Gerardot placing tracking devices on the cars driven by her husband of 24 years and his 33 year old mistress, Meredith Chapman. I didn’t write a book or go on national TV to tell my story for notoriety, moral support or sympathy. When police officers arrived at Chapman's house Monday, they found Mark Gerardot in the driveway. SURVIVING AND REBUILDING IN THE WAKE OF THE UNTHINKABLE. He told them he thought his wife may be inside. I am grateful. I now believe I have faith, and a closer connection to the God of my religious roots. Anyone who thinks that Jennair’s murder and suicide were understandable responses to having been wronged should be put on a watch list.
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